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Too Embarrassed to See a Dentist? Here’s Why You Don’t Have to Be

Whether it’s been a few years or a few decades since your last dental visit, we’re here to offer compassionate care without judgment.

If you’ve been avoiding the dentist because you feel embarrassed, ashamed, or afraid of being judged, you are not alone. Millions of people struggle with these same feelings. At The Dental Anesthesia Center in St. Louis, we specialize in helping patients just like you feel safe, supported, and comfortable every step of the way.

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I have NEVER had a positive experience with dentist…until now!! I was mind blown how kind the staff was, not just to me but to everyone! I have debilitating anxiety when it comes to dentists because of bad previous experiences, so I was very nervous. But, all the staff, including Dr. Thom, were very gentle, kind, and understanding. They took time to listen to all my concerns and address them, helping to put me at ease. I was also amazed how professional the whole office ran and how completely reliable they were. They easily guided me through the process and everything went so smoothly, including my sedation. I have never been treated so kindly by any dental office before, I was struggling to believe I wasn’t in some kind of dream. But. They really were that nice.

My recovery from sedation and all
The dental work they did to save my tooth was amazing, not a single issue! Dr. Thom even called personally to check on me a day later.

Coming back to put my permanent crown in was the same experience. They were all so kind,
Good about explaining everything they were doing and make the experience light and dare I say…fun.

I would drive 2.5 hours again in a heartbeat to do my work here. Best dental experience I’ve ever
had hands down!!!!!!! Thank you Dr. Thom for giving my life and tooth back. I’m so excited to not be in so much excruciating pain anymore!
Response from the owner:We can’t thank you enough for your kind and heartfelt words. Our entire team is dedicated to creating a gentle, supportive, and positive experience for every patient, so it means the world to hear your visit felt that way. We’re so glad you felt cared for and comfortable throughout the process, and we truly appreciate you making the trip to see us. Thank you for trusting us—it’s an honor to care for patients like you!
Dr. Hoffmann and his team takes great care of my special needs daughter. We have been coming here for over 20 years. The staff is so kind and patient with her and explains everything to help her stay calm.
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for sharing your kind words and for trusting our team for so many years. We’re honored to care for your family and appreciate the opportunity to make each visit a positive experience.
I have had the best experience with Dr Behl and her staff! I have awful dental anxiety from some past experiences and they are so kind and supportive. Rebecca is incredible to work with. I highly recommend them to everyone I know!!
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for sharing your kind words! We’re happy to know you felt supported and comfortable during your visit. Our team strives to create a welcoming environment for everyone, and we truly appreciate your recommendation.
We always receive excellent care at the Dental Anesthesia Center.
Response from the owner:Thank you for your kind words! We truly appreciate your trust in our team and are grateful for the opportunity to provide care.
Our adult daughter has cerebral palsy and requires being fully sedated when having anything done. The DAC was such a positive experience. Dr Hoffmann and his staff were kind and did great explaining things. As a mom, I had a lot of questions about how certain things would be done as usually she’s in her chair when getting examined at her local dentist and they had everything under control including transferring from her chair to the dentist chair and keeping her secured in the dentist chair as well as keeping her neck and legs comfortable. Many thanks to them!
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for your kind words. We’re grateful for your trust and happy to hear that you had such a positive experience with our team. Our goal is always to provide compassionate, attentive care in a safe and comfortable environment. We truly appreciate you taking the time to share your experience.

Why People Avoid the Dentist Due to Embarrassment

There are many personal, emotional, and even traumatic reasons why people avoid the dental chair. Some of the most common include:

  • Haven’t seen a dentist in years and feel ashamed of the condition of your teeth.
  • Fear of being judged or lectured about their oral hygiene.
  • Dental anxiety or past traumatic experiences with dental providers.
  • Sensitive gag reflex, medical conditions, or special needs that make dental visits more complicated.
  • Embarrassment about bad breath, tooth decay, or missing teeth.

These feelings are very real—and incredibly common. But avoiding care only allows problems to worsen, making future appointments even more stressful. That’s why we approach every patient with empathy, privacy, and respect.

You Deserve Judgment-Free Dental Care

At The Dental Anesthesia Center, we don’t just clean teeth—we care for people. Our mission is to make dentistry accessible, especially for those who’ve had negative experiences or special concerns.

Here’s how we help you overcome embarrassment and reclaim your health:

  • Private, quiet treatment rooms designed for comfort.
  • One-on-one consultations where you can share your concerns without pressure.
  • Gentle, respectful communication—we meet you where you are.
  • Customized treatment plans tailored to your comfort and goals.

We understand that every mouth tells a story. No matter where you’re starting from, we’re here to help you move forward.

How Sedation Dentistry Can Ease the Fear and Shame

If dental anxiety or shame has kept you from getting the care you need, sedation dentistry may be the solution. As St. Louis’ trusted leader in sedation and sleep dentistry, we offer options that make your visit completely stress-free:

  • Oral Sedation
    • A safe, prescription medication you take before your appointment to help you relax and feel at ease.
  • IV Sedation
    • Stronger sedation that allows you to remain responsive but calm, with little memory of the procedure.
  • General Anesthesia
    • For patients with severe dental phobias, special needs, or complex cases, we offer complete anesthesia administered by our in-house anesthesiologist.

These techniques enable us to complete multiple treatments in a single visit, allowing you to make significant progress without the need for numerous appointments.

You’re Not Alone—And You’re Not “Too Far Gone”

We’ve helped thousands of patients who once believed their dental problems were “too bad to fix.” Many told us they felt hopeless—until they walked through our doors. You don’t have to fix everything at once. You need to take the first step.

Whether you need a gentle cleaning, full mouth rehabilitation, or just someone to listen—we’re here for you.

Ready to Start Fresh? We’ll Walk With You.

If embarrassment has held you back from seeing a dentist, let us help you change that story. Our entire team is committed to compassion over criticism and healing over judgment.

📍 Located in Clayton, MO, The Dental Anesthesia Center serves St. Louis and surrounding communities with expert sedation dentistry for adults, children, and special needs patients.

Take the First Step—No Pressure, No Shame

Your comfort and dignity come first. Call us today at (314) 862-7844, or request an appointment online—and experience what dental care should feel like.

Updated: August 21, 2025