Too Embarrassed to See a Dentist? Here’s Why You Don’t Have to Be

Whether it’s been a few years or a few decades since your last dental visit, we’re here to offer compassionate care without judgment.

If you’ve been avoiding the dentist because you feel embarrassed, ashamed, or afraid of being judged, you are not alone. Millions of people struggle with these same feelings. At The Dental Anesthesia Center in St. Louis, we specialize in helping patients just like you feel safe, supported, and comfortable every step of the way.

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Best experiences ever. My two special needs children need sedation dentistry and see Dr. Thoms. Dr. Thoms is so kind, caring and reassuring. He truly has a special gift in treating people with special needs. So grateful to be his patients.
Response from the owner:Thank you for your kind feedback. We’re grateful for the opportunity to provide care in a supportive and reassuring environment.
We absolutely love the Dental Anesthesia Center. From the staff to the doctors - everyone is amazing. They are caring, kind and efficient.
Response from the owner:Thank you for your kind words and 5-star review! We truly appreciate you taking the time to share your experience with our team.
A remarkably excellent experience everytime
My son needs anesthesia for any dental procedures. Dr. Thoms and staff always meet our needs. Cannot recommend highly enough
Response from the owner:Thank you so much for the wonderful review! We’re honored by your trust and truly appreciate the recommendation.
This staff and these doctors are patient and kind and treat their patients with dignity. The doctors to a great job and go above and beyond.
Response from the owner:We’re so grateful for your thoughtful review! Thank you for trusting our team and for your kind support.
Dr.Hoffmann and his staff are absolutely the most amazing people to have working on your smile and your health, I am a joyful person who never smiled until now… from the moment you walk in and meet Rebekah and go back and meet Richell and meeting Dr.Hoffmann 🙌🏽 all the way till you meet Cheri at the end… take it from someone who hates the dentist, I love this place!!!!
Response from the owner:Thank you for the 5 stars and the big smiles! We’re so glad you felt welcomed and supported by our team—your kind words truly made our day.

Why People Avoid the Dentist Due to Embarrassment

There are many personal, emotional, and even traumatic reasons why people avoid the dental chair. Some of the most common include:

  • Haven’t seen a dentist in years and feel ashamed of the condition of your teeth.
  • Fear of being judged or lectured about their oral hygiene.
  • Dental anxiety or past traumatic experiences with dental providers.
  • Sensitive gag reflex, medical conditions, or special needs that make dental visits more complicated.
  • Embarrassment about bad breath, tooth decay, or missing teeth.

These feelings are very real—and incredibly common. But avoiding care only allows problems to worsen, making future appointments even more stressful. That’s why we approach every patient with empathy, privacy, and respect.

You Deserve Judgment-Free Dental Care

At The Dental Anesthesia Center, we don’t just clean teeth—we care for people. Our mission is to make dentistry accessible, especially for those who’ve had negative experiences or special concerns.

Here’s how we help you overcome embarrassment and reclaim your health:

  • Private, quiet treatment rooms designed for comfort.
  • One-on-one consultations where you can share your concerns without pressure.
  • Gentle, respectful communication—we meet you where you are.
  • Customized treatment plans tailored to your comfort and goals.

We understand that every mouth tells a story. No matter where you’re starting from, we’re here to help you move forward.

How Sedation Dentistry Can Ease the Fear and Shame

If dental anxiety or shame has kept you from getting the care you need, sedation dentistry may be the solution. As St. Louis’ trusted leader in sedation and sleep dentistry, we offer options that make your visit completely stress-free:

  • Oral Sedation
    • A safe, prescription medication you take before your appointment to help you relax and feel at ease.
  • IV Sedation
    • Stronger sedation that allows you to remain responsive but calm, with little memory of the procedure.
  • General Anesthesia
    • For patients with severe dental phobias, special needs, or complex cases, we offer complete anesthesia administered by our in-house anesthesiologist.

These techniques enable us to complete multiple treatments in a single visit, allowing you to make significant progress without the need for numerous appointments.

You’re Not Alone—And You’re Not “Too Far Gone”

We’ve helped thousands of patients who once believed their dental problems were “too bad to fix.” Many told us they felt hopeless—until they walked through our doors. You don’t have to fix everything at once. You need to take the first step.

Whether you need a gentle cleaning, full mouth rehabilitation, or just someone to listen—we’re here for you.

Ready to Start Fresh? We’ll Walk With You.

If embarrassment has held you back from seeing a dentist, let us help you change that story. Our entire team is committed to compassion over criticism and healing over judgment.

📍 Located in Clayton, MO, The Dental Anesthesia Center serves St. Louis and surrounding communities with expert sedation dentistry for adults, children, and special needs patients.

Take the First Step—No Pressure, No Shame

Your comfort and dignity come first. Call us today at (314) 862-7844, or request an appointment online—and experience what dental care should feel like.

Updated: August 21, 2025